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Baby Communication: The Essential Guide to Understanding Your Baby

Baby Communication: The Essential Guide to Understanding Your Baby

Babies don't usually talk until well into toddlerhood; the average child can start to string together sentences between 18 months and 2 years old.

There is nothing as sweet as the baby phase. Soon those gentle little coos will turn into adorable words, but for now, you're stuck guessing what your baby needs. 

While they won't be able to ask for milk or a diaper change just yet, if you pay close attention, you'll notice that there are trends in the way your baby communicates their needs. 

Besides facial emotion and body language, there are also distinctive types of baby cries that can alert you to whatever the problem is. Remember that each baby is unique, so it'll be up to you to recognize the cues.

This baby communication essential guide will help you understand just what it is that your baby is trying to tell you. 

The Building Blocks of Baby Communication

Touch, sounds, and meaningful glances; the beginning of your baby's life is full of communication. 

From the moment they enter the world, your baby is paying attention to everything around them. Through their senses, they are able to absorb new information all the time. This constant stream of knowledge and awareness will help them gain the ability to communicate. 

Make sure to talk to your baby, imitate sounds, and aid them in this communication journey. 

Crying 

Babies are born with the ability to cry. But what does their cry mean? Do they have a dirty diaper, are they hungry, or are they tired?

As your baby grows, they'll acquire new skills to communicate with you, but in the meantime, the cry may be the only way they can get their point across to you.

An upset cry may sound choppy and high-pitched, while a hungry cry might be a bit lower and short. 

Pay attention to their cries and what actions soothe them. Over time, you may recognize patterns in your baby's crying. 

Gestures

A reach up to your breast can mean that your baby is hungry. A nuzzle can signify that they are tired.

Use the sounds that accompany the gestures to best decipher what your little one is trying to say. 

When Should I Get Help?

If you hear a painful sounding cry or an unusual cry, make sure to get medical attention right away. It could be nothing serious, but crying is the major way your little one is going to communicate with you. 

Another thing to pay attention to is new sounds accompanied by odd behavior. If your baby is eating less, has fewer bowel movements, or is seeming less active than usual, call your doctor for advice. They could be sick or have a food allergy

Wunder What Your Baby's Saying? 

At Wunder, we are here for every step of your little one's adventure. From baby communication milestones to the best ways to feed your toddler, we cover the A to Z's of parenthood. 

On the go? Be sure to check out the Wunder Baby Tracker App to help keep track of every important moment you encounter on this beautiful journey.

The Top 3 Reasons Why First Time Moms Should Hire a Parenting Coach

The Top 3 Reasons Why First Time Moms Should Hire a Parenting Coach

From the moment you leave the hospital with your newborn, most first-time parents feel completely overwhelmed. After all, kids don’t come with instruction manuals. 

Unfortunately, things get more complicated the older your children get. Thankfully, you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Keep reading to learn more about why more and more first-time moms are deciding to hire a parenting coach.

Reassurance That You’re “Doing it Right”

From common health questions, like whether your newborn is gaining enough weight to more complex issues like dealing with a toddler’s temper, it seems like parents have to face life-changing questions every day. 

It’s easy to feel like you don’t know anything sometimes! Hiring a parent coach gives you someone to turn to when you need a boost of confidence or some advice about the “right” way to do things. This support and encouragement will give you peace of mind that you can't get anywhere else. 

Your parenting coach can also help ensure that your baby hits all of the milestones at the time that's expected. If he or she falls behind, your coach can also help you explore options for helping to get them back on track or make the necessary accommodations. 

Reduced Reliance on Family and Friends

While thoughts like “I wish I could just hire my mom” might have run through your head occasionally, many have a hard time taking parenting advice from people close to them. Working with parent coaches is like contracting with “moms for hire” – without the judgment.

Relying on your friends is also not the best option. No matter how much you may love your besties, it’s likely that many of them believe in different styles of parenting.

In the best-case scenario, you’ll receive confusing information from your various friends and have to sort through it yourself. In the worst-case, asking for advice can lead to conflicts that may strain your relationships. When you don’t want to feel alone but you want to keep your friends at arm’s length when it comes to parenting, a parenting coach is the perfect answer!

Improved Accountability

Sometimes, even though we know what to do, it’s easier to give in to a tantrum or add some extra screen time so we can take care of other things around the home. Having a parenting coach can help you to stay accountable and stick with the decisions you’ve made.

If, for example, you’re struggling with bedtime, you could arrange for your coach to call or text you each night an hour after the planned bedtime to discuss how things went and provide tips for the following night.

Your coach can help to keep you from second-guessing yourself and can provide ongoing advice as the situation changes. If you’ve hired a coach and you’re both on the same page, it can also help you deflect unsolicited advice that comes from well-meaning family and friends.

Get the Parenting Help You Need Today!

Whether you choose an in-person parental coach or opt for an AI-powered option, like Wunder, don’t be afraid to get the help you need. In the meantime, browse through more of our parenting blog posts to learn more about how to handle the most common parenting struggles.